singleorsomething

Unless you’re a member of The Fugees or The Delfonics, this should never be your hook line when entering a new relationship, especially if you’re not ready. It took some time to understand that wanting to be in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re ready for a relationship. It could mean you’re lonely or that you have some other issue in your life that you’re overlooking, and you believe a relationship will be your saving grace.

As women, we’ve been told for as long as we can remember that love will save us … that a relationship is that missing piece we need to complete our lives. I blame fairy tales as the reason so many women focus on this so intently and think a relationship is all they need to make them happy. Consider Cinderella, Snow White, Rapunzel – all women who were saved by some man and lived their…

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